Saxion Pride

The Trans & Non-Binary Meeting Group offers a safe space for all non-cisgender staff and students. It doesn’t matter if you are trans, non-binary, non-conformist, questioning, in the closet, queer, have another gender identity, or if you don’t want to label yourself at all: you matter and you are warmly welcome to participate! There are many things our cis counterparts don’t fully understand. We organise meetings where we talk about everything relating to gender, whether it is euphoric, dysphoric, or neutral. While heavy topics certainly come up, we also talk informally about how our gender affects our everyday experiences. We also give advice to education organisers to improve well-being at Saxion.

The Trans & Non-Binary Meeting Group meets every third Tuesday of the month, from 17:30 to 19:00 at Saxion (Ko Wierenga), M. H. Tromplaan 28, 7513 AB Enschede, Room F1.42. For questions, please send an email to [email protected]. This group is a joint effort of Th!nk with Pride UT, JS&V Exaltio, and Th!nk with Pride Saxion.

In 2023 Saxion started taking an important step towards greater inclusion and equal accessibility on its campuses. About one-third of all toilets have now been converted into all-gender toilets. This means that regardless of gender, everyone can use these toilets. Additionally, one-third of the toilets remain designated as women’s toilets and one-third as men’s toilets.

It is customary in the Netherlands to segregate toilets in public spaces by sex. Gender-neutral toilets break this norm and are accessible to all, regardless of gender identity. This arrangement provides a safe and comfortable environment for all students and staff, similar to the situation at home where toilets are also available to everyone.

There are no legal requirements for public spaces and hospitality venues to have separate toilets for men and women. Yet, we often see segregated toilets, even in places where it is not necessary. The rise of gender-neutral toilets, especially in government institutions, educational institutions, and museums, is a response to the increasing demand for inclusive facilities.

Why All-Gender Toilets?There are two main reasons why Saxion has chosen to introduce all-gender toilets:

1. Equality and Practical Benefits: The separation of toilets by sex dates back to a time when women and men were treated unequally. Nowadays, this causes practical problems, such as unequal waiting times in public spaces. All-gender toilets offer a solution to this inequality and promote equal access for all.
2. Safety and Comfort for Transgender and Non-Binary People: For some transgender and non-binary individuals, using sex-segregated toilets can feel uncomfortable or even unsafe. Gender-neutral toilets provide them with a place where they can feel safe without fear of discrimination or exclusion.

At Saxion, we strive to create an environment where everyone feels welcome and accepted. The introduction of all-gender toilets is an important step in this process. We are convinced that this contributes to an inclusive and welcoming educational institution for everyone.

If you have any questions or comments regarding the all-gender toilets, please send an email to [email protected].

At Saxion, we believe that everyone should be able to be themselves. We find it important that our students and staff can fully focus on their studies and work without having to worry about hiding their sexual orientation. Hiding who you truly are can be an obstacle to your personal growth and performance. Therefore, we invite everyone to be themselves and create an environment where everyone feels accepted and supported. We also invite everyone to come out of the ‘closet’ when it becomes too cramped.

Coming out as LGBTQ+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex, Queer, and others) can be a challenging but also liberating experience. It is a personal journey, and how you choose to come out can vary based on your unique situation and feelings. Here are a few tips that can help you during this process.

1. Take the time you need

You don’t have to rush. It is important to remember that you come out on your terms and when you are ready. It is a big moment, and it is important that you feel comfortable with it.

2. Build a supportive network

Before coming out, it can be helpful to gather a supportive network around you. This can be friends, family members, or online communities that understand and accept you. Having people to talk to can be a huge support.

3. Start small

You don’t have to tell the whole world right away that you are LGBTQ+. Maybe start with someone you trust and think will respond positively. This can help you build confidence before telling others.

4. Choose the right moment

Timing is important. Choose a moment when you feel safe and the circumstances are favourable. This may mean waiting for a quiet moment or planning a private conversation with the person you want to tell.

5. Prepare for questions

People may ask questions because they want to understand and support you. It can help to think about possible questions and how you want to answer them. Know that you don’t have to have all the answers and that it’s okay to say you’re still thinking about something.

6. Be prepared for different reactions

Not everyone will respond positively or understandingly right away. Some people may need time to process it. Try to be patient and give them space to process their own emotions. At the same time, it is important to protect yourself from negative reactions and to know that it is okay to distance yourself from people who do not support you.

7. Use resources and organisations

There are many organisations that offer help and advice to people who want to come out. These can be a source of support and can also connect you with others going through the same process.

8. Take care of yourself

Coming out can be emotionally taxing. Don’t forget to take care of yourself during this process. This may mean taking time for yourself, engaging in activities that make you happy, or talking to someone if you feel overwhelmed.

9. Celebrate your courage

Coming out requires courage and self-awareness. Regardless of how others react, it is important to recognise how brave you are, being true to yourself. Celebrate this moment, as it is a big step in embracing who you are.

10. Stay connected with your community

Being part of the LGBTQ+ community can be a powerful source of support and connection. Look for local groups, events, or online platforms where you can meet others who share similar experiences. It can make a world of difference to know that you are not alone.

Conclusion
Coming out is a personal journey that is different for everyone. The most important thing is to stay true to yourself and take the time to determine what feels best for you. Whether you are ready to take the step immediately or prefer to do it step by step, remember that you are not alone and that support is always available. For questions or additional tips, you can always contact [email protected].